Decisions Determine Destiny

Mind

Nov 12

Decisions. Decisions. Decisions. When you think about what makes life difficult, it’s easy to reflect on pivotal moments and wonder what would have happened had you chosen a different option.

Have you ever contemplated a decision that could have permanently altered your and your family's lives for better or worse? It could be your decision to come to LSU, to skip a Thursday night at Fred's in Tiger Land, to take a different route home, or to say yes or no to attending study hall. One decision has the potential to drastically alter your life.

The next time you’re making a difficult decision, think about the morning of Wednesday, November 3, 2021. During those early morning hours, former Alabama star receiver Henry Ruggs III made a decision that has forever changed not only his life, but also the lives of his family and Tina O. Tintor's family and friends. The tragic decision to drive intoxicated while exceeding 100 mph has left many people in mourning for years to come. More about this tragedy can be found HERE.

We won’t spend too much time discussing the specifics of the situation because our role is never condemn or demean others; however, in our ongoing quest for direction and guidance we will learn, recognize, and acknowledge the shortcomings of our brothers and sisters.

In short, we are all one decision away from a completely different life.

Key Takeaways

“It’s the weakness of a man is to root for someone to fail.” – Sam Dekker

1. In difficult situations, take a minute to pause and take a step back. This allows you to see things as they are while also weighing your options.

2. Identify the pros and cons. This is the best- and worst-case scenario. What happens if you choose to continue? What happens if you stop? What are the consequences?

3. Be courageous. Courage enables us to put aside our pride and ego. It allows us to go against the grain and ask for help when necessary.

a. Instead of drinking and driving: consider calling someone to pick you up, use a ride share app, or walk home if it’s a safe alternative.

b. When you’re angry or upset: take a moment to cool down, call a friend, or remove yourself from the situation until you’re ready to address it in a calm manner.